At most Filipino parties and gathering I attend, even back
in South Africa and now in Canada, one kind of entertainment that never ceases
to be a favourite among the crowd is the karaoke machine.
I am certainly not one to shy away from this type of
limelight. It’s an amusing, stress-releasing activity and for the most part, if
done correctly, it is both encouraging and contagious. I always find that
people are attracted to the karaoke, once they see that the “singers” are
having fun. I, myself, certainly feel “invited to join in” when the
surroundings are more supportive.
I always try to enjoy the song whilst singing. And even
though I sing alone, I don’t feel that the karaoke is a solo act. There is always
some discussion, loads of song choices almost to the point of indecisiveness,
insignificant singing mistakes and tons of brilliant moments. You might say
that because I carry a decent tune I’d feel like this – but I truly believe
that there are no great or bad singers, only people who are brave enough to
step up to the plate and take the mic.
It’s also a wonderful feeling to find your favourite songs
on the karaoke. It is always hard to make that first song choice and a familiar
tune can help a long way, almost like a comforting old friend. For my first song choice, I always, always dabble in my music collection of The Carpenters. Most notably, my preference always lands up between a toss-up between "Love Me for What I Am" or "Top of the World".
Most, if not all, Carpenters songs are a little low key for me but I love warming up to
them as they slowly raise my pitch. I sound unrehearsed and slightly hoarse,
certainly nowhere near the caliber of the legendary Karen Carpenter. But I know
I’m gaining the confidence I need to tackle my next karaoke songs. I normally
make my selections among Whitney Houston, Celine Dion, Barbra Streisand et al
afterwards. Quite a tall order but since my voice gets very shrill and
high-pitched at times, this is where I’m most comfortable. Am I sounding like a
diva already? :-)
So next time you visit a Filipino jamboree, watch out for
that lady who starts off by singing a Carpenters song….who knows, that might be
me!?